What’s up people! As we all know, Ciara and Future, haven’t had the smoothest breakup. That’s not surprising, especially when there’s a child involved. However, there’s been plenty of criticism (from predominantly the male community) thrown Ciara’s way for letting her new man, Russell Wilson, spend time with her & Future’s son.
Future decided to use his interview with The Breakfast Club to express his true feelings. According to him, “You don’t bring a man around your son. You’ve known this man for a few months and you’re bringing him around your kid? Who does that?” Now, it looks like Ciara is fed up with all the double standards about her parenting, and she decided to speak out yesterday on her interview with CBS This Morning. Ciara states, “I feel like in a sense it’s a bit of a double standard, because when we were together, I took care of his kids as well.” She continued to say, “I was involved [with Future’s children] very early in the stage of us getting to know each other,” she added. “It’s kind of like, ‘Well, what’s the difference here?’ I think that even for the men that were outspoken, it’s like, wouldn’t you want someone to love on your child, or love on the child that you are speaking about?”
Now, I don’t know much about parenting but I am a double standard expert! I think this is complete bullsh*t. Ciara is living her life, has found someone she cares about, is even practicing celibacy, but she can’t even introduce her own child to her man? That’s not okay. Keep in mind that Ciara also stated that she had reached out to Future so that he can speak to Russell, but did not want to speak with her. What else do you expect?? She’s not gonna wait around. She has to do her. That’s the whole point of this. I personally think she’s doing exactly what she should be doing because she isn’t doing anything wrong. She’s not introducing her son to multiple men. She’s not out here having sex with multiple partners. She’s not neglecting or abusing her child, so why all the criticism? Let her do her.